Let’s reflect again on the SIZE of the windscreen and the size of this ‘review’ mirror. Which one deserves MORE time and attention?
Go back to the thing you gave up on and lost confidence in. Compare how much time you focused on the review mirror against how much time you spent planning ahead, or imagining yourself succeeding!
Write this goal down on a piece of paper. Underneath, list all the ways that you can focus on looking forward?
For example: What can you do daily to practice? What can you remind yourself of if you fail again? Who can be there to cheer you on? What will it feel like once you master the skill? Who will celebrate your victories with you?